Bunnie Xo, the wife of country music star Jelly Roll, has revealed intimate details about their journey to expand their family, announcing they have selected a surrogate and are preparing for in vitro fertilization (IVF) to welcome twins. The candid disclosure comes as part of her newly released memoir, Stripped Down: Unfiltered and Unapologetic, offering fans a deeply personal glimpse into their aspirations and the medical procedures involved.
The podcast host shared in her memoir, which hit shelves on Tuesday, February 17th, that she and Jelly Roll have meticulously planned for the arrival of two children through IVF. This significant step towards parenthood is being undertaken after achieving a sense of stability in both their financial and emotional lives over their decade-long relationship. The couple’s proactive approach highlights their commitment to building their family despite potential challenges.
"J and I have a surrogate, the sweetest woman ever, and soon I’ll be starting my IVF stims," Bunnie Xo wrote in an excerpt shared with media outlets. She expressed optimism about the advancements in IVF technology and conveyed profound gratitude for the surrogate’s willingness to carry twins for them. "With how much IVF has advanced over the years, and with the help of the most unselfish woman willing to carry twins for us, we’ll be able to make our baby dreams come true," she added.
Understanding the IVF Process and Bunnie Xo’s Journey
In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a complex series of procedures used to help with fertility or prevent genetic problems and assist with the conception of a child. According to the Mayo Clinic, the process typically involves a phase of ovarian stimulation, often referred to as "IVF stims," which can last one to two weeks. During this period, a woman undergoes hormone injections to encourage her ovaries to produce multiple eggs. These mature eggs are then retrieved and fertilized with sperm in a laboratory. The resulting embryos are cultured for a few days before one or more are transferred into a woman’s uterus. In Bunnie Xo and Jelly Roll’s case, this transfer will be to their chosen surrogate.
Bunnie Xo has been transparent about the demanding nature of her previous IVF attempts throughout 2025. She previously shared on TikTok in July of that year the significant toll the process had taken on her, stating, "I’ve had to miss a lot of fun things, my body has been thru the ringer & honestly I’m exhausted mentally & physically." This admission underscored the physical and emotional strain associated with fertility treatments, a sentiment she also echoed in an earlier post where she described the IVF journey as "lonely" and "a lot to bear." Her openness has provided a relatable perspective for many navigating similar challenges.
Addressing Age and Criticisms
Beyond the intricacies of IVF, Bunnie Xo’s memoir also tackles societal perceptions regarding their age and readiness for parenthood. Bunnie Xo, who is 46, and Jelly Roll, who is 41, have faced comments from some who believe they are too old to have children. The couple is already a blended family, with Jelly Roll sharing custody of his teenage daughter, Bailee, and Bunnie Xo being a stepmother to his younger son, Noah.
Addressing these critics directly, Bunnie Xo stated in her book, "Some people frown upon our decision to bring babies into this world at our age. And I could give a f***." This defiant stance reflects a personal conviction that age should not be a barrier to experiencing parenthood, especially when the desire and resources are present. Her unapologetic attitude resonates with many who feel judged for their life choices.
The Significance of a Surrogate and Future Family Plans
The decision to utilize a surrogate is a significant one, often stemming from various medical or personal circumstances. For Bunnie Xo and Jelly Roll, this path allows them to pursue their dream of having twins despite the physical demands of carrying a pregnancy, particularly after experiencing the rigors of IVF treatments. The selection of a surrogate signifies a deep trust and a shared commitment to bringing new life into their family.
Jelly Roll, whose real name is Jason DeFord, has previously spoken about his desire for a larger family and his admiration for Bunnie Xo’s resilience. Their public personas have often been characterized by authenticity and a willingness to share their struggles and triumphs. This latest revelation about their family planning continues that narrative, offering a hopeful glimpse into their future.
Broader Implications of Fertility Treatments and Blended Families
The growing prevalence of fertility treatments like IVF, and the increasing visibility of surrogacy arrangements, reflect evolving societal norms and technological advancements in reproductive medicine. Bunnie Xo and Jelly Roll’s story touches upon several contemporary themes: the challenges of infertility, the emotional and financial investment in assisted reproductive technologies, and the complexities of building blended families.
Their willingness to discuss these personal aspects of their lives in a public forum can serve to destigmatize conversations around fertility issues and surrogacy. By sharing their experiences, they contribute to a broader dialogue that can offer support and understanding to others facing similar journeys. The concept of a "chosen family" and the lengths individuals go to create one are increasingly recognized and celebrated.
The Road Ahead for Bunnie Xo and Jelly Roll
As Bunnie Xo prepares to begin her IVF stimulation cycle and anticipates the arrival of twins via their chosen surrogate, the couple is embarking on a new and exciting chapter. Their journey, marked by transparency and a strong sense of purpose, underscores their deep desire to expand their family. The memoir provides an in-depth look at the personal sacrifices, emotional fortitude, and unwavering hope that have defined their path to parenthood.
The public response to their announcement is likely to be supportive, given their established connection with fans who have followed their lives closely. The narrative of overcoming obstacles to achieve deeply held dreams continues to resonate, and Bunnie Xo and Jelly Roll’s commitment to their family aspirations, no matter the challenges, offers an inspiring testament to their enduring bond. Their story is a powerful reminder of the diverse ways families are formed in the modern era, driven by love, determination, and a shared vision for the future.
